
One thread, many orbits.
Öther you! is a social network for meeting people without the pressure of a face, a feed or a follower count. First you talk with your alias; the rest is up to the conversation.

Make friends. Or find a partner.
Not everything has to be a date. Some people become your 3 a.m. voice note, some become your person. You decide what it is.

Meet first. Reveal later.
Profiles in Explore are visible, and when you write to someone they see your unique alias. You choose when to reveal your identity: right away, later or never.

Talk to whoever you want.
People from your own country or from the other side of the world. You choose who to write to: Öther you! never pairs you up automatically.

Chat, photos and voice notes.
Write, and after four messages and with permission, send photos and voice notes. Always at your own pace.
Feel safe. Say no.
You decide whether to receive new conversations and what people can send you. Block anyone in one tap and report whatever feels wrong. No ads, ever.
Built to feel safe
- Adults only. Öther you! is for people aged 18 and over.
- Photos only if you want them. You decide whether anyone can send you images.
- Registered accounts. Your alias gives you privacy from other people, but every account is registered and accountable for what it does.
- Block and report in every chat and profile. An automatic filter checks messages and our team reviews reports. Community Guidelines.
- Zero tolerance for harassment, hate and any abuse of minors. Child Safety Standards.
- No ads and no selling your data. Read our Privacy Policy.


Find the other you.
Free on iPhone and Android.
Questions? Write to us at info@ötheryou.com. For help with your account, visit Support.



