Support
Write to [contact email]. We usually reply within [2 business days]. Please include your device model and app version if you are reporting a problem.
Report abuse
To report a user, open the chat and tap [the menu ⋮ → Report]. Blocking ends the conversation immediately. For anything involving a minor, see our Child Safety Standards. If someone is in danger, contact local emergency services.
Frequently asked questions
Is Öther you! free?
Yes, chatting is free. Optional Premium features can be purchased in the app.
Are there really no ads?
Yes. There are no ads in the chat — not between messages and not when you open the app.
Can the other person see who I am?
No. Your profile stays hidden until you switch on “Show my profile” in a chat. Remember that anything you write can still be screenshotted.
How do I cancel Premium?
Subscriptions are managed by the store: on Android, Google Play → Profile → Payments & subscriptions → Subscriptions; on iPhone, Settings → your name → Subscriptions.
How do I delete my account?
See Delete your account.
I’m under 18. Can I use Öther you!?
No. Öther you! is only for adults.